Hi, I'm Francine Kaye,

the UK's Leading Relationship Coach

I help people make relationships work...

.....together or apart.

Speak to me on 07931338653

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501 Centennial Park

Centennial Avenue

Elstree

Borehamwood

Hertfordshire

WD6 3FG

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Qualifications

Person Centred Counsellor

CTI Life Coach

Imago Clinical Therapist

Imago Facilitator

ADR Family Mediator

ADR Family Facilitator

Parent Effectiveness Traine

About Francine Kaye

Helping relationships work - together or apart

Most people don’t struggle in relationships because they’re doing something wrong. 

They struggle because old hurts get triggered, emotions escalate, and no one was ever taught how to slow things down enough to understand what’s really happening between them.

I’m Francine Kaye, a Relationship & Couples Coach with over 25 years’ experience supporting individuals and couples through conflict, emotional disconnection, and major relationship transitions, whether they’re hoping to stay together or separate well.

I didn’t come to this work from theory alone. I grew up with a strong voice and a curious mind in environments where being heard wasn’t always welcome. I learned early how painful it can be to want to be seen and understood, and not be. Later, in my own adult relationships, I recognised how those early experiences shaped the way I related, even while I was helping others untangle theirs. That understanding changed everything.

It taught me this: 

Relationships don’t fall apart because people don’t care. They struggle when unhealed parts take over and people lose the ability to truly hear one another.

My work helps people understand what’s happening beneath the arguments, withdrawal, resentment, or shutdown, so communication becomes calmer, clearer, and safer. Most couples aren’t broken; they’re caught in patterns they don’t yet know how to change.

I’m trained in relationship and communication approaches including Imago Dialogue, attachment-based work, nervous-system-informed practice, and mediation. I’ve written books on relationships and divorce, worked in the media, and supported hundreds of individuals and couples from many walks of life. My background in mediation means I’m able to hold difficult conversations with balance, fairness, and clarity, even when emotions are running high.

What matters most is this: 

When you work with me, you’re working with a real person who understands how lonely, frustrating, and exhausting it can feel to want to be accepted for who you are, while constantly having to monitor what you say or how you show up.

I work with individuals and couples who want to feel more at ease in their most important relationships; able to be themselves, speak honestly, and stop walking on eggshells. When people understand what’s really driving their reactions, staying together often becomes far simpler and more natural than they expect. And when it doesn’t, it’s still possible to separate with dignity, care, and self-respect.

If you’d like support that’s thoughtful, grounded and human, you’re very welcome to arrange a Clarity Call.

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